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I help men avoid relationship breakup, survive through separation and thrive through divorce.
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Going through a separation/divorce can feel like a rodeo. In a blink of an eye you're up in the air, not knowing when you'll hit the ground and in what condition you'll wake up tomorrow.
I get it. I was there too. 

Book your free 15min chat today and I'll show you the exact roadmap I used to survive and thrive through separation.

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"I have just finished a 7 week course with Tamir, Wow, what can I say, Tamir is an amazing coach, he has guided me through a tough period in my life over the past few months.

His genuine, no BS approach really helped me gain new insights and coping mechanisms. His coaching style immediately resonated with me. He goes above and beyond, and is seriously very good at what he does. Thank you Tamir, love your work!"

 

Matt

"Thank you for everything you have done with and for me. It's been a complete rollercoaster ride and you enabled me to think in a way I have never have before, and given me some amazing tools to work with.

 

Really appreciate it mate, this process would have been a hell of a lot tougher without you. Not only that, the whole experience is valuable for anyone, regardless of their current relationship status."

Alexander

"I've found the knowledge and exercises very valuable, especially knowing that Tamir has lived the lessons himself… and had gained much benefit from the knowledge in his own life. 

I felt supported and more confident. I will absolutely feel comfortable recommending this to a friend."

 

Demian

"The part that helped me the most was about identifying the roles that I was playing. eg. the victim, prosecutor and rescuer. Knowing when I'm doing those things and be able to see I'm still doing these things even after she left me. 

 

Also the meditation about identifying emotions was very helpful."

 

Chris

How I used my pain to grow, conquered my separation and started a life of resilience, inner strength and freedom.

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Tamir Berkman, Divorce Cowboy

Life was hell. When my ex told me it was over, I went into denial. I was smoking and drinking to hide and ignore the pain of shame and guilt. When I finally gathered the courage to stop, I could feel how badly I was treating myself.

I was miserable. Full of fear, anger, sadness, guilt and shame.
Fear of the unknown, what will happen to me and to my daughter. Angry with my ex, blaming her for my shitty life and my feelings. I was feeling sad about losing everything, guilt for my poor choices and shame for having a broken family.

I felt like a failure in life.

My mentor listened to me, showed me empathy...but also called me out. He asked me straight up "are you a victim?" I took a long, hard look at myself. I wanted to say: "Fuck off", I could lied and said "No!" but the truth was that I was holding myself in a victim state.

He showed me some "doors" I can go through if I choose. These doors opened to a whole new world of self-development, emotional resilience and inner strength. Choosing to work on me was my "aha moment".

 

My passion is to guide men through separation, just as my mentor did for me. Now, I'd like to do the same for you.

I'd like to show you some "doors" and let you make a choice. Are you ready to create your successful separation?

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