The one thing that got me out of separation hell, is being focused on my personal growth.
It's too easy to think of growth or personal development as an afterthought. Something that happens while I do other things. Something...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
If life is like driving a car, separation is like an accident.
And a divorce coach is the seat belt. Are you separating without a seat belt? 👇 Seat belts reduce the risk of serious or fatal injury by...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Separation felt like going through hell.
Working on a co-parenting relationship took time and commitment. Here are three things that helped me create a good co-parenting...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Going through separation? Your ex getting on your nerves? Read this 👇
So I'm enjoying a beautiful weekend drive with my girlfriend on a long country road. The phone rings and it's my co-parent (or ex, when...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
My interview on THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast
THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast we interviewed Tamir Berkman, Divorce Cowboy. This cowboy is a divorce coach for men. Tamir only...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
If you're going through separation, there are options!
You can talk with me, a counsellor, a phycologist or another coach. Talk with someone - you and your kids are worth it! Whenever you're...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Are you ready to date again after separation? Here's one big idea you should explore: 👇
You've been brought up to believe there's only one way to do relationships. It has to be monogamous, it has to be committed, it has to be...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
During separation it’s easy to think you’ll get what you want by more aggression.
Get upset, use threats, send another letter. This rarely works. Do you want to get what you want? Here’s a a new way 👇 I call this...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Here are three reasons why "separation short term thinking" is killing you 👇
1. Lawyer fees are expensive. Think $550 per hour expensive. Every single email, every single minute, every single phone call is...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Are you a people pleaser? These are some of the things a people pleaser will say/do. 👇
You might be a people pleaser if: - You're saying "Happy wife happy life". - You're still doing things for your ex. - You're over...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
The reason for all separations is no personal growth. 👇
Whenever you're ready, here are two ways I can guide you through separation: 1. Download the Separation survival guide:...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Dating after separation/divorce? Read this 👇
Three things I’ve learned as a newly single man: 1. Taking it slow I don't want to jump into another serious relationship too soon. I’m...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Going through separation? Being unaware of your emotions is like driving 100kph blindfolded.
Many men would rather do that then talking about their emotions. Here's how to talk about emotions in a masculine way. 👇 Everyone has...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Separation means losing more than just your partner.
It's also means losing access to kids, changing homes and effecting your work.👇 This leads to a loss of EXTERNAL identity such as a...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
If you read, connect, follow, like, comment and share my stuff - Thank you!
I've met so many amazing people this year. 👇 With some I chatted. With some I zoomed. With some I podcasted. With some I had a coffee....
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Two years and north of 70k, or Two months and less than 20k?
Maybe separation wasn't your choice but how you do it is your choice. 👇 Mediation cost a fraction of lawyers fees. Mediation and...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
It usually starts when my ex calls me out of the blue...
She says something, and I can feel the volcano inside me. 👇 She is my most triggering person in the world. It's like she's pushing all...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
Going through separation? If you spend your time sitting on the couch. drinking. smoking. Read this:
I know what's it like: - You don't get to see your kids. - You were let go, dismissed, dumped. - After all these years of doing what's...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
I know how you feel. I know why you avoid sharing what's happening. 👇
Stuck in denial. Feeling shame and fear. This is limbo land. "On the fence" land. Where no change is happening. This is where you're...
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Tamir Berkman
- Jun 30, 2022
- 1 min
I didn't use to love myself. Here's how I acted.. 👇
Didn't put my wants and needs as top priority Blamed myself /my ex /the system Didn't admit I need to change Used excuses for my...
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