Search

Dating after separation/divorce? Read this 👇

Three things I’ve learned as a newly single man:


1. Taking it slow


I don't want to jump into another serious relationship too soon.


I’m still healing and figuring out how to not repeat past behaviours.


I need to be a single male for a while, so spending time with friends is highly recommended.


If I do have sexual relationships, I keep them non-monogamous. (Honesty and clear communication are key to this)


2. Love myself


Being a separated single dad doesn't mean the fun stops, on the contrary.


I find that almost two years after my separation, I can enjoy healthy dating life as a single man.


The key is to be ok with being with myself before I start another serious relationship.


I took the time to learn how to enjoy time alone.


I took time to heal and grow.


I’ve done some self-development work.


I’ve created a life that if full and meaningful, so I won’t need a relationship to fill my cup.


3. Think of dating as an experiment


I love using dating as a big experiment designed for me to learn what I like, what I don't like, how to communicate honestly and how to be in a healthy and supportive relationship that focuses on my growth.


By ignoring the outcome, I can explore freely and be honest about my wants and needs, without fearing rejection.


How do you find dating after separation?


Whenever you're ready, here are two ways I can guide you through separation:

1. Download the Separation survival guide: https://www.divorcecowboy.com.au/copy-of-the-workbook

2. Book a FREE 15min call: https://calendly.com/tamir-berkman-divorcecowboy




Divorce Cowboy, Separation coach for men
Divorce Cowboy, Separation coach for men


0 views0 comments