Dating after separation/divorce? Read this 👇

Three things I’ve learned as a newly single man:

1. Taking it slow

I don't want to jump into another serious relationship too soon.

I’m still healing and figuring out how to not repeat past behaviours.

I need to be a single male for a while, so spending time with friends is highly recommended.

If I do have sexual relationships, I keep them non-monogamous. (Honesty and clear communication are key to this)

2. Love myself

Being a separated single dad doesn't mean the fun stops, on the contrary.

I find that almost two years after my separation, I can enjoy healthy dating life as a single man.

The key is to be ok with being with myself before I start another serious relationship.

I took the time to learn how to enjoy time alone.

I took time to heal and grow.

I’ve done some self-development work.

I’ve created a life that if full and meaningful, so I won’t need a relationship to fill my cup.

3. Think of dating as an experiment

I love using dating as a big experiment designed for me to learn what I like, what I don't like, how to communicate honestly and how to be in a healthy and supportive relationship that focuses on my growth.

By ignoring the outcome, I can explore freely and be honest about my wants and needs, without fearing rejection.

How do you find dating after separation?

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