Want to know the FIRST thing you need to do when separating?
Reach an Emotional Equilibrium.
Here's why... 👇
About 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
On average, a person spends about two years thinking about divorce before taking action.
This means that when a woman says: "I want a divorce", she's in a state of conclusion after deliberation.
The man is in the opposite state of mind.
He's probably hearing about it for the first time (sometimes by denying the signs).
The two sides are now in a completely different emotional space.
The woman is tired and angry.
The man is in shock, denial and disbelief.
This is the moment the relationship bridge, that was eroding for some time, turns into the gorge of mistrust.
Is this a safe space to communicate about critical future decisions?
For an healthy separation to be possible, two people need to be in an emotional equilibrium.
Are you in a sound emotional state?
I'm free to support you getting there.